Why TRIANGLE OF SADNESS Should Win Best Picture

Along with family trauma, “Eat the Rich” seems to be another common theme explored in media nowadays.  We have seen it in “The Menu”, “Glass Onion” and the one film that was able to grab a Best Picture slot “Triangle of Sadness”.

Set aboard a luxury yacht, Carl and Yaya — models and social media influencers — are surrounded by wealthy guests of all backgrounds and a crew that will stop at nothing to meet their needs.  When tragedy strikes the yacht, roles are reversed to see who can survive.

There is a lot of commentary out there about the top 1% of society and this film’s approach is to make it as a satirical black comedy.  It is broken up into three parts: Carl and Yaya, The Yacht and The Island.  Part One focuses on the relationship dynamics between Carl and Yaya.  Even though they are in the same line of work, Yaya gets paid more as a female model while also gaining a huge following online as an influencer.  We see how Carl is treated as a male model, feeling uncomfortable with the campaign he is doing and not getting front row seating when he is at one of Yaya’s runway shows.  But what this part focuses on is the relationship between the two.  After a dinner, Carl is expecting Yaya to pay the bill as she has promised she would pick it up the last time they went out, while Yaya automatically assumes Carl will pay for it as he is the man in their relationship.  Their conversation takes place in the restaurant, in the cab, and in the elevator of their hotel until it is (somewhat) resolved in the end.  This part of the movie not only introduces us to our protagonists, but establishes what they want out of life.  Both have a strong focus on the importance of providing.  Carl claims that he does not want to focus on gender roles when it comes to things like money because he wants them to be equals in their relationship.  But I think this is an excuse that Carl tells himself because he wants to be a provider for Yaya but cannot in their current moment in life.  He does not make as much money as her, which goes against the traditional standards the previous generation has gone through.  He feels bad that he cannot give Yaya everything that she wants to make her feel secure, so he gets in arguments with her about something as simple as paying the bill.  Yes, he wants to be seen as an equal to Yaya when it comes to their relationship, but the fact that he cannot give her the basics of her lifestyle means that he will never be good enough for her.  When Carl is able to provide something for two women in the third part of the movie, we see him feel better about himself and what he is doing because he is filling in that role as a provider.  This part not only establishes what Carl thinks of his relationship with Yaya, but Yaya herself tells us that she is only with Carl for the followers for both of them and how it can help both of their careers.  She is providing for them in a more untraditional way with the rise of social media and how fake relationships can boost sales or clicks or whatever is making them the money.  Yaya says she will stay with Carl until she meets a rich man that can give her everything she needs for the rest of her life.  Yaya, like Carl, cares about have things provided for — but instead of being the provider she feels comfort in being the providee.  There is nothing wrong with feeling comfort in knowing that your basic needs will be taken care of by your partner.  Her needs might not really all fall under the umbrella of being “necessary” but she deserves that feeling of being provided for just as much as anyone else.  We see both sides of what it means to have the feeling of knowing you are okay for the present and future, which plays into how their relationship ends up by the final part.

For Part Two, we are on the yacht, where Carl and Yaya have been invited for free in exchange for promotion of the trip.  We are introduced to the staff of the yacht, broken up into the staff that has more face-to-face interaction with the customers on board and those who are doing more of the behind the scenes work.  It is not surprising that it is mostly white, good-looking individuals that are apart of the customer satisfaction crew and people of color working away from the cruise-goers; they are even wearing white and navy shirts respectively.  Paula, the head of staff, make sure to tell the white-shirt employees to follow and accept any kind of offer the guests might ask, no matter how absurd.  If they follow every single request, there is a great chance they will end up getting a very big tip.  They end this meeting by chanting “Money! Money! Money!” because even those who are not seen as the rich that are on board, they still care about how much they will make at the end of their shift.  As someone who has worked a variety of customer service jobs, I understand the want of making people feel good about the service we are providing.  But I will also be the first one to tell you that the customer is not always right.  There are better ways of making sure all guests are satisfied, but having your only response be “Yes sir” and “Yes ma’am” is not what makes great service.  We see this when Vera, the wife of a Russian oligarch, insists that the entire staff take a break and go for a swim.  You can see how much Alicia, the young worker, is struggling to say yes as she is the first one to be asked to go in the hot tub with Vera; she was told she has to please the guests but she also has a duty to complete her work.  When you have money and power, you think that everyone will bend over backwards to make your life better because you have something they do not.  Whatever you are doing at that present moment is not as important as the request that they have of you.  After Alicia finally gets in the hot tub, Vera calls Paula over and makes the entire crew, both white-shirts and navy-shirts, stop what they are doing and take a slide down the blow-up slide the yacht has because they are all working so hard they deserve a break.  Because Paula has put in place this “Don’t Say No” rule, she also has to follow it and requires the crew to stop everything.  This includes the cooks, as they are preparing the dinner and cannot leave their stations in risk of the food going bad.  But the rich Russian lady wants you to go swimming so you must obey!  There is a lot of entitlement that comes with having the means to do extravagant things, but that does not mean that you always have to listen to them.  It is okay to say no to people in power because they are not always right.  You also cannot put people who work below you at such a risk of displeasing someone that it could get them fired essentially by the guest and not from you as the boss.  Rich people do not always need to have power, but unfortunately that is what our society has come to.  Vera sure is regretting making the entire staff do something at her whim by the end of this part though.

After tragedy hits the yacht, few characters are left stranded on a deserted island with little resources and no knowledge on how to actually survive.  Most of the people that end up on the island are the rich guests that have not had to do anything themselves in who knows how long.  Living a life of privilege does not always guarantee that you will get through all aspects of life.  You have access to more knowledge and resources than the average person to learn how to survive in the wilderness but you never take advantage of it because your daily life does not require you to utilize those skills.  Only one person, Abigail (who is part of the custodial staff on the yacht), can build a fire and catch the food and has to be the provider for everyone on the island.  One of the best parts of the movie is when Abigail realizes her power she has while they are all stranded on this island and makes all of the rich people and her boss say that she is the captain of the island.  And she has every right to because she is the only one that can keep them alive.  She knows that the power dynamics have shifted in her favor, something she has probably never experienced before.  When she crashed on the island, Paula was still giving her tasks to do because Paula’s only focus was keeping the guests happy.  But they are not on the yacht anymore — it should not be run the same way it was before.  The one with the most knowledge should be the one that is in charge, something we are not used to in society because money usually is what gets you power.  But just because you have the power when you deserve it does not mean you are immune to what comes with it.  Abigail runs the show at the beginning of their time on the island, but as everyone else is learning how to adapt and fend for themselves, she begins to feel threatened that her skills will no longer be beneficial to the group, therefore she will not need to be in power anymore.  They are all about to become the most equal amongst each other as the rich guests’ skills grow, and Abigail does not want that.  Even though she will still be the top dog, she will not have as much power as she once had.  Especially if there are threats to get them off of the island because she wants that power for as long as she can have it because if they leave that island, she will never have that same kind of rank again.  Power corrupts and it is why she can convince Carl to give her sexual favors in exchange for food for him and Yaya.  She knows the kind of grip she has on him and she will stop at nothing to keep that control.

There is time for change when it comes to how we view money in relation to power but also how we view power over those we find weaker than us, which is why it should win Best Picture.

This one is for the social media critics.

Why THE BANSHEES OF INISHERIN Should Win Best Picture

After being quarantined for well over a year, myself and many others were itching to get out and spend quality time with our friends.  That is not the case for Colm though, as he no longer wants to spend any time with Padraic, leaving him unaware and confused on this sudden shift in their lives.  “The Banshees of Inisherin” explores the ending of this friendship in one of the funniest yet saddest movies I have seen this year.

Off the coast of Ireland towards the end of the Irish Civil War, drinking buddies Colm and Padraic reach a roadblock in their friendship as Colm abruptly cuts Padraic off, claiming he is too dull and wants to focus on creating something that he will be remembered for with the remaining years of his life.  Padraic, while perfectly nice, does not understand this new situation he is so quickly put in and continues to try to befriend Colm again, until Colm threatens to cut off his own fingers every time Padraic speaks to him.

From that basic description, it may seem weird how that could make a funny yet devastating picture.  What I love about this movie is how simple the premise is.  You do not need to have read a book beforehand or be a fan of a specific genre; you just need to be a person.  Losing a friend, whether by a fallout or changing of lives, is tough and hurtful.  You want to know what you did or if you could change one aspect about your relationship to repair it.  But sometimes, it is not anything you did — that person has just changed.  That is what Colm is trying to tell Padraic throughout the movie.  He does not want Padraic in his life anymore because his needs and wants for his remaining years are different than what they used to be.  Does Colm go about ending their friendship in the best way?  No, absolutely not.  It happens so abruptly to Padraic that when I watched I thought I missed a scene.  I think this quick ending of a friendship that sets off the whole chain of events for the film is to show us that when you only think of your own feelings, you are blocked from seeing how it can affect anyone else.  I do not think it was selfish of Colm to end his friendship with Padraic, but it was selfish how he went about it.  Your actions matter even if you think your feelings are the only ones that are important.

As Padraic is failing to come to terms with this major change in his life, Dominic tries to fill this void as he also does not have any friends.  Dominic’s father beats him in public as he is “troubled” and is seen to get on people’s nerves even though he means well.  Padraic and his sister Siobhan take him in for a temporary amount of time.  Both Padraic and Dominic are outcasted by people that mean a lot to them and are important in their lives and that is what makes them perfect for each other at this moment.  Others may be put off by their quirks and that is what drives them together.  Padraic does not really want to become close friends with Dominic as his main focus is getting Colm back in his life.  But Dominic is right there ready to become that person Padraic is looking for.  Sometimes, friends can be found during the lowest points of your life, and if you do not appreciate them when they show up and make an effort, you may lose your only chance to really get to know them.

One of the funniest scenes in the movie is when Padraic is trying to prove to himself that he is not just “dull and too nice” like Colm thinks he is.  Instead of ignoring what Colm is saying about him. he goes to the extreme and tells a music student of Colm who is visiting the island for a lesson that his father has been gravely injured and needs to leave Inisherin immediately.  Padraic is so desperate to make Colm see him in a different light that he drives anyone away who has a chance of taking his place as Colm’s friend.  Colm wants to leave something behind when he is gone — that being his music — and Padraic is ruining those chances because he cannot accept that his former friend no longer wants to be in his life.  Padraic thinks that his lie to the music student will prove to Colm that he is not dull that he is not afraid to proudly admit it when they are about to reconcile.  You should not compromise yourself and what you believe in just to impress one person after they have made it clear they do not want you in their life anymore.  Whether that be a break up or losing a friend, you are great as you and you do not need to change just to get someone to like you.

Throughout the movie, we are reminded that the Irish Civil War is taking place.  I was actually unaware that Ireland had their own civil war in the early 1920s.  The war was between the Provisional Government of Ireland and the Irish Republican Army over the Anglo-Irish Treaty.  The Provisional Government, who were in favor of the treaty, ended up winning but the way left more dead than their own War of Independence did and left their society divided to this day.  Having this war as the backdrop of this movie is used perfectly to represent the in-fighting between those who used to have a connection.  The end of the film really drives this point home, as Colm wonders if the war is over and Padraic responds with even if it is, it might be better if the things they were fighting about cannot be moved on from.  Based on all of the events these characters have been through, bringing their feud to a new head once death and arson are involved, we forget why they were really fighting in the first place.  Both sides are not forever affected by the constant battles and no one is left off better than the other.  No matter how much the anti-treaty forces kept fighting, they would never have the resources to take down their own government.  Padraic could keep fighting for his friendship with Colm, but Colm would never budge as his mind was made up and he had threats ready for Padraic in case he did not respect his request to not talk anymore.

“The Banshees of Inisherin” shows us that life can change quickly and without warning, but we should never compromise ourselves or those who remain in our lives to reach an unobtainable dream, and that is why it should win Best Picture.

This one is for those who need a laugh during a sad time.